
Challenges are part of life, and there is no getting around that reality. American psychiatrist and best-selling author M. Scott Peck, M.D., so clearly articulates this truth in his book, “The Road Less Traveled.” Peck says, “Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult- once we truly understand and accept it- then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.”
This is not a pessimistic or fatalistic thought. It is a realistic thought, and it helps one deal with reality and challenges. Armed with that authority, we develop self-confidence and a belief that we can handle what life throws at us. Furthermore, we are not surprised when things don’t go perfectly.
Here are the things that I have learned in nearly forty years (That really makes me sound old.) of management:
• Always tell the truth. It is very liberating, and you don’t need such a great memory. We hear the term, “keep it real.” We increase our authenticity by letting people see us as we are and being honest.
• Own up to mistakes. Francis Bacon said, “Truth will sooner come out of error than from confusion.” Making a mistake often brings insight for solving the problem, and taking responsibility for the mistake bypasses added confusion. How can we grow if we don’t admit our mistakes and take ownership?
• Ask for feedback. Remember the late New York City Mayor Ed Koch? He famously asked everyone he met, “How am I doing?” We build our reputation, in part, by consistently asking for feedback. It is one of the keys to growth.
Make it a good week!